Laura & Callum

Laura & Callum

August 7th, 2026

Penshurst Place

You're Invited!

Join us as we celebrate our special day

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The Perfect Pen Pal Timeline

2018

2018

2018 - The Spark

The Spark. Tonbridge. A Masters student, home for the summer from Southampton and a newly qualified teacher, setting up her classroom, cross paths at Fuggles Beer Café. A drink thrown over Laura and she knew he was a keeper.

2019

2019

2019 - The Promotion

The Promotion. A quick trip to a Prague A&E department for Laura on their first holiday. Southampton welcomes Callum for his PhD with open arms with the condition of 2 years in Singapore.

2020

2020

2020 - The Challenge

The Challenge. Like the rest of the world, Callum and Laura faced the isolation and uncertainty of the pandemic, taking shelter in Tonbridge and Tunbridge Wells with their parents and for Callum his brothers too. A time that was unexpected, but many happy memories formed. 15 weeks later they were finally reunited, a walk along the Woodland Walk in Tonbridge.

2021

2021

2021 - The Global Gap

The Global Gap. Callum travels East to Singapore; Laura heads to the bright lights of Dubai. Proof that true love isn't just about being in the same room - it's about holding on from across the globe. Making core life long friends along the way.

2022

2022

2022 - The Reconnection

The Reconnection. Travel lanes finally open up! The joy of reuniting through long-awaited visits between Singapore and Dubai provides the momentum they need to keep looking forward.

2023

2023

2023 - The Reunion

The Reunion. Callum lands back in the UK, after a visit to an American conference, trip to Bali, and a final trip to Dubai. Securing a contracting job with AstraZeneca and finding their first "us" space in Shortlands, Laura returned to the UK, following a tour of North America, and finally, they are under the same roof. 5 years in the making.

2024

2024

2024 - The Foundation

The Foundation. They stop renting and start building, buying their first home together in Orpington and the renovations start. The icing on the cake being celebration of Callum graduating and becoming Dr. Waller.

2025

2025

2025 - The Milestone

The Milestone. On 16th April, the view from the Shangri-La in London provided the perfect backdrop for a life-changing question and a very happy "Yes."

2026

2026

2026 - The Wedding

The Wedding. August 7th at Penshurst Place - the day we say "I do."

The Wedding Party

...the starting lineup...

Bride's Side

Mother of the Bride

Clare Phillips

Mother of the Bride

Father of the Bride

Mark Phillips

Father of the Bride

Maid of Honor

Gemma Hyett (Gem)

Maid of Honor

(Had an aversion to Maitron)

Bridesmaid

Holly Johnston

Bridesmaid

Bridesmaid

Kathryn Reay (K)

Bridesmaid

Bridesmaid

Hannah Crosby

Bridesmaid

Bridesmaid

Thomas Hordle (Tommy)

Bridesmaid

Bridesmaid

Jeannette Jones (Jeannettes)

Bridesmaid

Groom's Side

Mother of the Groom

Donna Waller

Mother of the Groom

Father of the Groom

Robert Waller

Father of the Groom

Best Man

Simon King

Best Man

Groomsman and Toastmaster

Joshua Howitt (Josh)

Groomsman & Toastmaster

Groomsman

Oscar Waller

Groomsman & Brother

Groomsman

Joseph Waller

Groomsman & Brother

Groomsman

Christopher Culpin (Chris)

Groomsman

Groomsman

Daniel Ponsford (Dan)

Groomsman

Groomsman

Oliver Chapman (Ollie)

Groomsman

Frequently Asked Questions

What time does the ceremony start?

The ceremony will begin at 2:00 PM. We recommend arriving a little earlier to get settled and find your seat.

What is the dress code?

Formal attire. Think smart suits - the idea is dress to impress. We can't wait to see you dressed up!

Where is the wedding taking place?

The wedding will be held at Penshurst Place in Penshurst. You can find directions and more details on the Location tab.

Is there parking available?

Yes, there is parking on site at Penshurst Place. More information will be shared closer to the day.

Can I bring a plus one?

We're so excited to celebrate out special day with you, however due to limited space, we are only able to accomodate those named on the invitation.

Do you have accommodation recommendations?

Yes! Check out the Hotels/Taxis tab for suggested places to stay nearby and local taxi numbers. We've listed a few options to suit different preferences and budgets.

I have dietary requirements. How do I let you know?

You can note any dietary requirements when you RSVP. There's a dedicated field for allergies and dietary restrictions.

When do I need to RSVP by?

Please RSVP by the 30th of May 2026. You can do so via the RSVP link on our website - we'd love to hear from you!

Are Children invited?

We have chosen to host an adults-only event to allow all of our guests to relax and enjoy the evening. We hope you understand and can still join us for the fun!

Order of the Day

2:00 PM

Ceremony

Join us as we say "I do"

3:00 PM

Drinks Reception

Champagne and canapés

5:00 PM

Wedding Breakfast and speeches

Three-course meal

7:30 PM

Evening Reception guest arrival

Music, dancing, and celebrations

8:15 PM

Cutting of the cake

Cut the cake and share the moment

8:30 PM

First dance

Dance the night away

11:30 PM

Last call

The bar will close at 11:45 PM.

12:00 PM

Carriages

The venue will close at 12:00 AM.

Location & Directions

📍 Where to park

Use the private entrance

Carpark Entry Map - Private Entrance on B2176

🚗 BY CAR

FROM M25 JUNCTION 5, follow A21 to Hastings, leaving at the Hildenborough exit, then follow brown tourist signs to Penshurst Place.

FROM M20/M26 Junction 2a, follow A25 (towards Sevenoaks) and then A21 for Hastings, then as above.

Local approaches are well signposted with brown tourist signs.

Guests should enter via the PRIVATE ENTRANCE on B2176 as marked on map opposite, sat nav reference TN11 8DH.

🚂 BY PUBLIC TRANSPORT

Train from London Charing Cross to Tonbridge, then taxi to Penshurst Place (approx. 6 miles).

Wedding Photos

Coming Soon

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Photo Sharing Coming Soon!

We're setting up a special way for you to share your photos from our wedding day.

Check back closer to the wedding for the photo upload feature!

🚀 Coming Soon

Where to Stay

We've arranged some wonderful places for you to stay during our special weekend!

Booking Information

Wedding Date: August 7th, 2026

Recommended Check-in: August 6th, 2026

Notes: Please mention Laura if booking at "The Leicester Arms" hotel.

🚕 Taxis (Penshurst / Tonbridge / Tunbridge Wells)

Local taxis serving Penshurst Place and the Tonbridge area. We recommend pre-booking for the wedding day, especially for evening pick-ups.

Important for taxi arrivals

  • Return journey: If you are arriving by taxi, we recommend booking your return journey in advance.
  • Pre-book for departure: For the journey home, please pre-book your taxi if possible, or as early in the evening as is practicable, to avoid extended waiting times at the end of the event.
  • Private entrance: Please instruct taxi companies to send taxis to the private entrance of Penshurst Place—not the public or visitor entrance.
  • Meeting point: Taxis should wait and meet guests in the turning circle at the front of the House.
  • Postcode for sat nav: Use TN11 8DH for the private entrance (for use with most satellite navigation systems).

Tonbridge Taxis

24/7 • Airport & local

📞 01732 252 800

🌐 tonbridge-taxis.co.uk

Airport transfers to major UK airports, online booking, fixed pricing. Serves Penshurst and Tonbridge.

Guardian Taxi

24/7 • Airport & local

📞 01892 800 300

🌐 guardiantaxi.co.uk

Airport taxi services, competitive pricing, saloon, estate and MPV options. Covers Penshurst and Tunbridge Wells area.

Apex Cars

24/7 • Executive & airport

📞 01892 640 641

🌐 twapexcars.co.uk

Executive car hire, chauffeur and airport transfers. Reliable 24/7 service in the area.

Tunbridge Wells Taxi (TW Kings Cars)

Airport & station transfers

📞 01892 800 234

📞 07741 041 293

🌐 tunbridgewells-taxi.co.uk

Airport and station transfers, minibus hire. Serves Gatwick, Heathrow, Stansted, Luton and local trips to Penshurst.

Inclusion on this list is for convenience only. Please book in advance for the wedding day and confirm prices when booking.

Additional Tips

  • Parking: Free parking available at the wedding venue. You are welcome to leave your car overnight and collect it the following morning.
  • Taxis: Pre-book for the wedding day, especially for evening pick-ups from Penshurst Place

For further local accommodation go online to:

🌐 www.visitkent.co.uk

🌐 www.visittunbridgewells.com

Please note inclusion on this list is not necessarily a recommendation; the above are the main accommodation providers in close proximity to Penshurst Place. We recommend you visit Tripadvisor for up-to-date reviews of the accommodation and check the current grading rating as they are inspected annually.